“101 Things About Lil’ Old Me”
- I arrived in this world April 1963
- I was born in Austin, Texas
- My family are long-time Texans; Dad’s family arrived in 1840, Mother’s in 1665
- My older brother & I are the first generation to be raised outside of Texas
- My parents divorced when I was a year old
- Yes, it did effect my relationships with men
- Mother & I moved to California in 1965
- Dad & my brother moved to New Mexico
- I would like to visit Austin, since I have no memory of it
- The name I answer to is not meg
- meg is an acronym of my legal name
- I like my natural name- I just like the anonymity better
- I have 3 brothers & 2 sisters
- I’m the second oldest
- But everyone treats me like the oldest
- I was always a serious child
- My dad said I was born an old lady
- I’ve gotten younger as the years go by
- I have Chris to thank for that
- I’m really a shy person
- People laugh at me when I say that
- I’ve been known to talk the hind leg off a donkey
- But only around people I know
- I have a dry sense of humor
- I can also be very sarcastic
- I don’t think this is always a good thing
- But it is how I’m wired
- I grew up in Berkeley, with my mom, step-dad & 3 younger siblings
- No, we were not hippies
- I do remember the student riots & smell of tear gas
- We were rather well-to-do
- We children weren’t aware of this
- I was the only one of my siblings to go to public school
- My step-dad & I didn’t get along when I was growing up
- When I was 16, I moved to Kansas to live with my Dad & brother
- It was a good thing- I didn’t know my Dad very well
- I met my first husband 3 months after I moved to Kansas
- Yes- I’ve been married twice
- I met both my husbands in the same year- Chris in Feb & the other in Dec
- I got married when I was 19
- It wasn’t a bad marriage, just not a good one
- We had 2 children- Robb & Jessica
- My first husband is a nice man, but not the right one for me
- I was divorced a week before I turned 25
- I married Chris 4 months & 10 days later
- It was the biggest risk I’ve ever taken
- It was the best decision I ever made
- We lived with my mother-in-law for the first 18 months of our marriage
- Fortunately, I love my mother-in-law
- I raised my daughter & my ex-husband raised Robb
- It was the most difficult choice I ever made
- I still second guess myself about that decision
- Ultimately, I think it was the right one- Robb is a terrific man
- It took me 2 years to get pregnant with Sam
- I had a lot of problems during that pregnancy
- I gave birth- naturally- to a 10lb 1oz, 23 inch long baby
- We wanted another child, but the doctor didn’t think it would be a good idea
- I didn’t think it was such a good idea either
- I love my children, but sometimes I think I should have stuck to cats
- I have naturally curly hair
- It’s short, dark brown & liberally sprinkled w/white
- I made peace with my hair a long time ago
- I’m the shortest one in my family
- I’m the only fat one in my family
- I’m also the only one in my family without high cholesterol
- I love to dance
- I’m a pretty good dancer
- I love to sing
- I’m pretty good at that, too
- I studied French in grade school
- I studied Spanish in high school & college
- While I can understand a little French & Spanish, I speak only English
- This is one of my biggest regrets
- I have a math brain- I think in numbers & patterns
- My husband & daughter don’t understand this- they think I’m weird
- My sons do understand this- they think I’m cool
- I am intelligent & educated, but I don’t consider myself an intellectual
- I graduated with a 3.89 GPA
- I got A’s & B’s without too much effort
- I have a photographic memory
- But the lens is getting cloudy
- I enjoy learning
- I would like to finish a Bachelor’s degree, but I can wait
- I’ve always had an active imagination
- I entertain myself while walking with daydreams, mostly about winning the Lotto
- Since I rarely remember to play, I can only daydream
- My favorite color is green, but I rarely wear it
- My style is rather static- skirts, slacks, loose tops & flats
- My daughter thinks I look frumpy
- She’s probably right, but I like being comfortable
- I need to lose weight
- My ankles pop & crack every time I walk
- I have osteoarthritis
- I mostly ignore it, but it’s getting harder
- I really want to travel
- I am a born-again Christian
- I have been since I was 21
- I was raised in a family of atheists/agnostics
- My grandmother taught me about God
100. I’m the black sheep of the family
101. That’s okay with me